The Search For Your Tribe

What Ethical Non-Monogamy Taught Me About Friendship Photo by Helena Lopes on Unsplash “However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship.” — Francois de La Rochefoucauld It was my 30th birthday and I pulled up to a club in Hollywood. Four beautiful women and I got out of my vehicle, the valet took my keys… Continue reading The Search For Your Tribe

Vanilla with Sprinkles

When the Whips and Chains are Optional Photo by niu niu on Unsplash “I have no objection to anyone’s sex life as long as they don’t practice it in the street and frighten the horses.” ― Oscar Wilde “Oh honey, you’re kinky.” These were words I never expected to hear. Despite being out of a disastrous first marriage in my… Continue reading Vanilla with Sprinkles

Honesty in Dating with Polyamory and Monogamy

“selective focus photography of woman and man about to kiss” by Ashley Schulze on Unsplash “And I think if you’re going to be with somebody, you owe it to them to show yourself.” — Chris Crutcher I will state, as a disclaimer, that this is a rather personal article for me. I share a lot of my own past individual… Continue reading Honesty in Dating with Polyamory and Monogamy

Polyflexibility and the Pursuit of the Potential Perfect Partner

The Dynamic Spectrum of Polyamory and Monogamy Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash “I reserve the right to love many different people at once, and to change my prince often.” — Anaïs Nin Polyamory, the practice and ability to love ethically more than one person and have your partners do the same, is a rather complex issue for many. Everyone has… Continue reading Polyflexibility and the Pursuit of the Potential Perfect Partner