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Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence

How Not To Feed the Green-Eyed Monster and Tell Your Brain to Shut Up Medium Link Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash “Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy — in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly… Continue reading Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence

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See Me, Hold Me, Love Me

The Politics of Receiving Love Medium Link Photo by Shahzin Shajid on Unsplash “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is… just to love and be loved in return” — Nat King Cole We stood embracing each other, this beautiful lithe woman I adored in my arms, partially enclosed in the trench coat she was wearing. Beneath she wore only sheer… Continue reading See Me, Hold Me, Love Me

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The Search For Your Tribe

What Ethical Non-Monogamy Taught Me About Friendship Medium Link Photo by Helena Lopes on Unsplash “However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship.” — Francois de La Rochefoucauld It was my 30th birthday and I pulled up to a club in Hollywood. Four beautiful women and I got out of my vehicle, the valet took… Continue reading The Search For Your Tribe