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The Care and Keeping of Your Demisexual

When the Friend Zone is the Doorway Medium Link Photo by Christiana Rivers on Unsplash “If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends. Make it last forever; friendship never ends” — Spice Girls “Would you like to come back to my place?” she asked with a clear intention. We’d danced half the night away,… Continue reading The Care and Keeping of Your Demisexual

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The Tao of Loneliness

Misadventures In Being Authentic in Dating Medium Link Photo by Noah Silliman on Unsplash “Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space. The best you can do is know yourself; know what you want.” — Janet Fitch She fumbled for my hands as she danced with me. I could see she was drunk and completely… Continue reading The Tao of Loneliness

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Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence

How Not To Feed the Green-Eyed Monster and Tell Your Brain to Shut Up Medium Link Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash “Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy — in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly… Continue reading Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence