Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence

How Not To Feed the Green-Eyed Monster and Tell Your Brain to Shut Up Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash “Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy — in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves room… Continue reading Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence

Love Architecture

Applying the Lessons of Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy and True Friendship to Every Relationship Photo by Crew on Unsplash “There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.” — George Sand I stood behind her with my arms wrapped around her waist, holding her close to me. Her hands rested on mine and the scent and feel… Continue reading Love Architecture

Honesty in Dating with Polyamory and Monogamy

“selective focus photography of woman and man about to kiss” by Ashley Schulze on Unsplash “And I think if you’re going to be with somebody, you owe it to them to show yourself.” — Chris Crutcher I will state, as a disclaimer, that this is a rather personal article for me. I share a lot of my own past individual… Continue reading Honesty in Dating with Polyamory and Monogamy

Polyflexibility and the Pursuit of the Potential Perfect Partner

The Dynamic Spectrum of Polyamory and Monogamy Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash “I reserve the right to love many different people at once, and to change my prince often.” — Anaïs Nin Polyamory, the practice and ability to love ethically more than one person and have your partners do the same, is a rather complex issue for many. Everyone has… Continue reading Polyflexibility and the Pursuit of the Potential Perfect Partner