Valuable, Handle With Care

Coming Up For Air After Healing Photo by Ester Marie Doysabas on Unsplash “The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it…” — Nicholas Sparks I was dancing alone on the crowded night club floor, just lost in the beat and the music. I’d paused as a small group of fellow club… Continue reading Valuable, Handle With Care

The Care and Keeping of Your Demisexual

When the Friend Zone is the Doorway Photo by Christiana Rivers on Unsplash “If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends. Make it last forever; friendship never ends” — Spice Girls “Would you like to come back to my place?” she asked with a clear intention. We’d danced half the night away, and had… Continue reading The Care and Keeping of Your Demisexual

Good Manners For Dining At The Y

Constructive Thoughts On That Most Intimate Kiss Photo by Christopher Campbell on Unsplash Content Warning: This is a rather detailed and potentially graphic article discussing sexual techniques (NSFW). I also will be using mostly physiological terms that a quick Wikipedia search may help for the unfamiliar. “Cunnilingus is a girl’s best friend. Cunnilingus is life. Everything else is… Continue reading Good Manners For Dining At The Y

I Dad, Therefore I Am

Finding Solace in Parenthood Photo by Jelleke Vanooteghem on Unsplash “It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” — Frederick Douglass I looked down into those little blue eyes, and tears streamed down my face. She was but 8 lbs — so delicate, so defenseless. She couldn’t possibly see me yet, but her eyes… Continue reading I Dad, Therefore I Am

The Tao of Loneliness

Misadventures In Being Authentic in Dating Photo by Noah Silliman on Unsplash “Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space. The best you can do is know yourself; know what you want.” — Janet Fitch She fumbled for my hands as she danced with me. I could see she was drunk and completely out of… Continue reading The Tao of Loneliness