The Care and Keeping of Your Demisexual

When the Friend Zone is the Doorway Photo by Christiana Rivers on Unsplash “If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends. Make it last forever; friendship never ends” — Spice Girls “Would you like to come back to my place?” she asked with a clear intention. We’d danced half the night away, and had… Continue reading The Care and Keeping of Your Demisexual

Good Manners For Dining At The Y

Constructive Thoughts On That Most Intimate Kiss Photo by Christopher Campbell on Unsplash Content Warning: This is a rather detailed and potentially graphic article discussing sexual techniques (NSFW). I also will be using mostly physiological terms that a quick Wikipedia search may help for the unfamiliar. “Cunnilingus is a girl’s best friend. Cunnilingus is life. Everything else is… Continue reading Good Manners For Dining At The Y

Safety, Sanity and True Consent

Understanding When Yes Really Means No Photo by Bryson Hammer on Unsplash “To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.” — George MacDonald Trigger warning: Sexual trauma and rape is discussed Jennie whispered, “Yes, Daddy,” as she knelt onto the foot of her bed. She was completely nude, with a crosshatching of reddened skin across her back, painted by… Continue reading Safety, Sanity and True Consent

Vanilla with Sprinkles

When the Whips and Chains are Optional Photo by niu niu on Unsplash “I have no objection to anyone’s sex life as long as they don’t practice it in the street and frighten the horses.” ― Oscar Wilde “Oh honey, you’re kinky.” These were words I never expected to hear. Despite being out of a disastrous first marriage in my… Continue reading Vanilla with Sprinkles